Monday, July 30, 2012

Xi'an!

Dear Family and Friends,

     I'm writing from our hotel in Xian.  Yesterday was our official "Gotcha Day."  Our guide from Lifeline met us and took us to the CCCWA offices.  Although we were somewhat intimidated about the whole process and about actually being there, the process was pretty casual.  The office is temporarily in an upper floor of a museum during remodeling of the CCCWA building.  We just signed paperwork in duplicate and answered some questions. 

   Afterwards, our guide, Sherry, took us to stock up on water and to buy ice cream to celebrate. 

   Sara from Shepherd's Field was with us throughout the process too.  It was sooo nice to have her with us.  She is really determined to get answers when she is advocating, but is a a tiny person with a big heart.  It worked out for her to stay in our hotel room with us.  She was just like part of the family.

   It was really hard for Phillip to say good-bye to her.  He wouldn't look at her at first and then he practically knocked people in the lobby over trying to get to her to give her one last hug before she caught a taxi.

   Phillip, Karl, and I went back to the CCCWA offices for some more paperwork again today.  Kyle and Brit had a nice morning in the beautiful hotel.  Phillip was like a caged animal in the offices, but the paperwork didn't take too long.  We had to go to the police station today as well.  Phillip had way too much fun getting his picture and his fingerprints taken. 

   When we returned, we picked Brit and Kyle up and went shopping to get new shorts fro Phillip.  Unfortunately, my guesstimate of his size was way off and he loses his shorts everytime that we transfer him out of his wheelchair.

    We're doing well, but are already eager to get Phillip home to some stability.

   We love you all!  The internet here seems to work consistently.  We'll try to update you again soon.

    KKPB&J


Thursday, July 26, 2012

The Big Day!

Hey people,

Just thought we'd let you know we made it safely to SFCV to meet Phillip today! All our flights were really great, no problems, and not much turbulence ;) Driving through Beijing was just as uneventful as possible, which is always an adventure! And we made the most important connection of all! After like 20 hours of travel (and like 2 hours of sleep) we finally met Phillip around 6:30 this evening!

Oh man, you guys shoulda been here! He was (and still is) literally exploding with joy and excitement! He instantly started calling mom and dad "mom" and "dad" and was thrilled to do so. He calls me Kyle but he calls Britt "Grimmy." We got to take him and his buddy Joseph out to dinner with a bunch of SFCV interns and staff too. He's having a blast chatting, smiling, laughing, and getting settled in with us and we are so glad for that!

The four of us who flew today are pretty wiped so all this cool stuff is kind of a blur, but we'll tell ya more when we become ourselves again after a good night of rest. In the meantime, sleep well, ask the Father that we sleep well, and let him know how much he rocks for his goodness to us! Man is he ever faithful!

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Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Heading Out!

Hey Friends!

We are almost out the door! Tomorrow at 5:27am our first plane will take off and we'll be on our way to get Phillip! It is so crazy to be this close! God has been carrying us through this adoption for months and now we're finally getting to the good stuff!

This blog is gonna be AWESOME for the next two weeks because we're gonna post as many pictures and stories from our trip as possible! We want all our friends and family to be able to keep up on the blog and continue to witness the joy of this process with us. Thank you all for your support, for your prayers, and for catching our passion for our boy. We are SO blessed by all of you who love us and lift us up to Him!

If all people tend to be either more stress-prone or more relaxation-prone, I'd say we Crofts are stress-prone. It would rock if you guys could just pray that we will turn all our worries, anxieties, fears, and the knots and butterflies in our stomachs over to God. Pray we'll enjoy this trip, delight in our good God, and find it easy to let go of control so our arms are free for hugs and stuff. Please also just ask God to be glorified in our family's almost instantaneous transition. Right now we have a family of four and all of us are at home. In two weeks, we'll be a family of five with two at home, two in Oregon, and one back and forth between home and an out of town job. There's no doubt, this is God's timing and God's plan, but it looks a little tricky to us. Just pray we'll trust Him and rest.

Thanks folks, can't wait to get there, get back, and introduce you to Phillip!

Kyle

Earnestly, tenderly, Jesus is calling....Come home!

Dear Friends,

Each step of our adoption journey has brought its own challenges, blessings, and emotions.  God has peeled away layers of fears and lack of faith with painstaking accuracy.  He has whittled away at our practical perceptions of finances and has radically altered our view of the future as He has provided in ways that we could not think up or imagine ourselves.  He knew the areas where our foundations needed to be shored up.  He knew about all of the sleepless nights and the incredible mountain top highs that we would experience.  He knew the weaknesses in our family relationships that needed to be addressed.  He knew that you would be there to point Phillip and our family to Jesus himself.  He has been so faithful to prepare  us to bring Phillip home.

Lately, I've been meditating again on the story of Hagar.  At one point she refers to God as "the God who sees me."  There are so many details of our family history that clearly reveal that God has heard Phillip's cry for a family and has intricately woven the events to make that happen.  I love the picture of Phillip hugging the photo album to his chest because his expression seems to reveal tears of relief, anguish, and joy at the same time.  He must have been thinking that God finally heard and answered his nightly prayers for a family.
"We're coming, buddy, because God bent low to hear the desires of your heart and He answered."

Now that all of the red tape is complete and our travel itinerary is set, I've been imagining over and over again what it will be like when we meet Phillip at Shepherd's Field for the first time as his forever family.  My mind goes to a rush of noise as each of us releases our excitement to finally be together.  It may be a really physical greeting as we all rush to get a hold of him for the first time.  I imagine Karl and Kyle hoisting him out of his chair and all of us clinging to him.  I've imagined what I will say to him when things quiet down because I want my words to reassure him and to bless him.  I think that I will look into his handsome face and say, "It's time to come home."  Earnestly, tenderly, Jesus has been calling.....Come home!

(If you'd like a copy of our travel itinerary, send us an e-mail at supercroftees@comcast.net)

Monday, July 9, 2012

TA YAY! TA YAY! TA YAY!

After 15 months of paperwork, we finally get to celebrate today cuz our TA OFFICIALLY ARRIVED at Lifeline.  Finally, Phillip will be told that he has a family!  We can't wait to see pictures and video of his reaction!

You can see pictures if you click this link or copy it into your browser!

PHILLIP HAS A FAMILY!!!!!

Saturday, July 7, 2012

WE TRIED TO COMBINE THE MANY LISTS THAT WE FOUND ONLINE INTO THIS ONE HOPEFULLY ALL-INCLUSIVE LIST. WE HOPE THAT IS HELPFUL TO OTHERS ADOPTING OLDER CHILDREN.

CHINA ADOPTION PACKING LIST
CARRY WITH YOU/CARRY-0N
¨  PASSPORT IN HOLDER
¨  COPIES OF PASSPORT IN CARRY-ON
¨  TICKETS
¨  EMPTY DISPOSABLE WATER BOTTLE
¨  READING MATERIAL¨E-READER
¨  JOURNAL
¨  IPOD
¨  MONEY BELT
¨  TOOTHBRUSH/TOOTHPASTE
¨  COMB/BRUSH
¨  COSMETICS
¨  SMALL  DEODORANT
¨  LIGHT JACKET
¨  CASH
¨  GAMES
¨  WIPES
¨  SNACKS
¨  BLANKIE
¨  PILLOW
¨  GLASSES
¨  EXTRA OUTFIT AND UNDERWEAR IN CASE YOUR LUGGAGE IS LOST
¨  LAPTOP/IPAD/CHARGER
¨  SMALL CAMERA
LUGGAGE
¨  ZIPLOCK BAGS TO ORGANIZE AND FOR LIQUID ITEMS
¨  SHAMPOO/CONDITIONER
¨  GEL/HAIRSPRAY
¨  HAND SANITIZER
¨  SOAP (BAR OR LIQUID)
¨  RAZOR
¨  BATH PUFF
¨  GLASSES
¨  EXTRA CONTACTS
¨  SALINE
¨  CONTACT CASE
¨  EYE DROPS
¨  CAMERA/VIDEO CAMERA
¨  SD CARDS
¨  BATTERY CHARGERS
¨  PAPER GOODS/PLASTIC SILVERWARE
¨  PANTS  ¨JEANS¨KHAKI¨BLACK¨NAVY
¨  SHORTS ¨JEAN¨KHAKI¨BLACK¨NAVY
¨  SWIMSUIT/BOARDSHORTS
¨  SUNGLASSES
¨  SHIRTS¨____________¨__________¨__________¨__________¨__________¨_____
¨  SOCKS
¨  FLIP FLOPS¨ATHLETIC SHOES¨__________¨__________¨__________¨__________
¨  UNDERWEAR¨__________¨__________
¨  SOMETHING TO WEAR TO BED
¨  DRESSES¨__________¨__________¨__________¨__________
¨  PILLOWCASE
¨  WASHCLOTH OR DISPOSABLE FACE WIPES
¨  NAIL CLIPPERS AND FILES
¨  TP/WIPES/HANDIWIPES
¨  MEDS¨PAIN RELIEVER¨ALLERGY¨INHALER¨COLD¨COUGH
¨  LOTION
¨  PENS/PENCILS/COLORED PENCILS
¨  CELL PHONE/CHARGER
¨  TRAVEL ALARM
¨  STAIN STICK
¨  SINGLE USE LAUNDRY SOAP/DRYER SHEETS
¨  GAMES¨__________¨__________¨__________
¨  CHINESE POWER CONVERTER (A SPECIAL ONE IS REQUIRED FOR ITEMS THAT HEAT)
¨  HAIR DRYER/CURLING IRON/FLAT IRON
¨  THUMBDRIVE
¨  GIFTS FOR CHINESE OFFICIALS AND FRIENDS AND CAREGIVERS
¨  CLOTHES FOR PHILLIP¨__________¨__________¨__________¨__________
¨  PICTURE BOOKS AND ACTIVITY BOOKS FOR PHILLIP